He wants to go, (can't blame him end of career is looming & a possibility for a big pay day to round it off).
No transfer request as then he will lose out financially on his contract with North End. (I've got no problem with that & neither should anyone else really).
He's not sure about the travelling or staying in hotels. (I work away from home a lot & staying in hotel after hotel is crap).
Mrs is not keen on uprooting the family. (Sound familiar to anyone else)
99.9% of everybody who posts on here would be contemplating all these things if we were in the same position & offered the same kind of choice.
If he goes good luck if he doesn't we will be left with a very good player, on his day, in our team.
common sense - how dare you - right down to the caveat about him being a good player. i have to say those days are becoming fewer.