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[Joanpne]

Best wishes stf4ever, I hope your new baby is born when you can be there but either way, the joy and positivity the baby will bring is absolutely priceless. Much luck, happiness and love to you and your family.

 

[Ando60]

Best wishes Stf4ever.. my thoughts and prayers are with you !!

 

[Henry Weston]

Wishing you all the very best stf. Everything crossed for you. We’re all with you 👍

 

[shabbagaz]

All the best STF - hope all goes well!

 

[Whiteinwales]

Best wishes stf, difficult few months for all your family coming up. Stay strong, keep positive mate.

We’re all here for you if you need to talk/rant/cry.

 

[WE8POOL]

wishing you well with your treatment remember we have the best nurses and doctors

 

[Tommmm12345]

All the best @stf4ever ,with this form we are more than happy to support one of the good guys on here. Hope everything goes well 😊

 

[mapping]

Best wishes bud , please keep us informed if you can , thinking about ya ❤️

 

[MBcha]

You've got my number pal if you need anything, a lift, a favour, a chat, literally not arsed what it is, give me a shout if you need to. Stay strong, can't think of better motivation to battle than the birth of a child.

Keep your pecker up.

 

[prestonmadhouse]

Absolutely Sterling of you to keep on updating us all. It really is good, in many ways.

Always stay positive pal. You will be the winner in all this.

The very best wishes to you and your family 💙💙

 

[stf4ever]

Thank you all for the messages. The support really means the world and is one of the reasons I keep coming back to update this thread.

I've decided if the baby is born whilst I'm receiving treatment next week that there will not be a better welcome home gift than that.

Keeping positive currently, I will come back and request help if that deteriorates. And there's a high chance of that, considering the doctor has banned me from smoking from today (and I aim to follow her advice).

 

[Whiteinwales]

Not sure if you can have them but Champix stopped me from smoking. Almost miracle like, did get very strange dreams though.

I’d tried nicotine replacement products but they didn’t work (no willpower)

 

[Joanpne]

Thank you all for the messages. The support really means the world and is one of the reasons I keep coming back to update this thread.

I've decided if the baby is born whilst I'm receiving treatment next week that there will not be a better welcome home gift than that.

Keeping positive currently, I will come back and request help if that deteriorates. And there's a high chance of that, considering the doctor has banned me from smoking from today (and I aim to follow her advice).

I used to smoke like a factory chimney, I had a lung cancer scare that turned out to be nothing more than a wart on my lung. It scared me enough to stop smoking though and I haven’t had a fag for 15 years now. It was nowhere near as difficult as I thought it would be after smoking for 38 years! During the scare I kept wishing I could turn the clock back and I wouldn’t have started smoking, once I knew I was ok I started to try to make my decisions on the principle that the clock is wound back now, so try to make good choices.

I wish you luck giving up, I promise you will be so glad you did.

 

[MrBoomBoom]

Best of luck @stf4ever and stay strong.

You’ve got a little ray of sunshine just around the corner, that’s gonna need it’s Daddy so that’s all your focus there to get through this. And you will.

Then the fun times will really start 🙂.

Take care.

 

[mozzchops]

Fingers crossed mate. Hope all goes well.

 

[paolo poggi]

I don't really know where to start this, I'm still in a state of shock.

My first child is due in 7 weeks. And, unfortunately, I've just had a phonecall in the last hour to tell me that I've got testicular cancer.

I've already spent the last 2 weeks living with anxiety, but that has now reached a new level having been told the news. I'm well aware that the likelihood is that I'm going to require chemotherapy and that will stop me from being able to see my child.

My heads all over the place. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated. Cheers.

Best wishes to you. To be the best dad for your kid, your priority is to get yourself well.

Lots of love to you and your family.

 

[Nobber]

All the best STF. Get the shit medicine out of the way and get yourself well for that young one.

If you’re ever feeling down remember you’re one step closer to putting this behind you and you have the joy waiting for you in the form of your child.

Keep Smiling

Nobs.

 

[Soapy]

Seeing your Mrs popping your first sprog is the the most amazing sight you will ever see. And then the rest.

Thank you all for the messages. The support really means the world and is one of the reasons I keep coming back to update this thread.

I've decided if the baby is born whilst I'm receiving treatment next week that there will not be a better welcome home gift than that.

Keeping positive currently, I will come back and request help if that deteriorates. And there's a high chance of that, considering the doctor has banned me from smoking from today (and I aim to follow her advice).

Start vaping then you daft cunt.
When the chaemo is over then grow hair and a beard.
Seriously, get well soon and focus on junior stf.

 

[Soapy]

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[Liberation]

Thank you all for the messages. The support really means the world and is one of the reasons I keep coming back to update this thread.

I've decided if the baby is born whilst I'm receiving treatment next week that there will not be a better welcome home gift than that.

Keeping positive currently, I will come back and request help if that deteriorates. And there's a high chance of that, considering the doctor has banned me from smoking from today (and I aim to follow her advice).

Any news/progress Pal?.... How are you feeling?...